For parents & families

Your child's shidduch, with the care you'd give it yourself.

No browsing, no swiping, no profile floating around the internet. Suggestions come one at a time, screened by a system built for our community and guided by vetted shadchanim — and nothing personal is shared without a yes.

The questions you'd ask — answered before you have to ask them.

A proper résumé, nothing more

The other side sees what a shidduch résumé would tell them — name, background, family picture. Phone numbers, address, exact birthday, and children's names stay sealed until both sides say yes.

Real shadchanim, vetted by the office

Every shadchan on the platform is reviewed before they can see a single profile. Your family chooses which shadchanim to work with — up to three — and can change that choice anytime.

Parents stay part of the process

The profile carries what families actually weigh — kehila, learning, family background, references. When there's a mutual yes, the shadchan brings it to the parents the way it's always been done.

Second marriages, without the awkwardness

For a divorced or widowed child, the intake handles children, custody, and halachic details with discretion — and matching accounts for the situation instead of ignoring it.

Your information stays yours

Pause visibility during a shidduch, limit the profile to chosen shadchanim only, and export or delete everything whenever you decide. No phone calls, no arguing.

Honest pricing, no surprises

A free plan (Open Door) for working with your shadchanim; $30/month (The Search) adds weekly matched suggestions. Cancel anytime. That's the whole price list.

Common questions from parents

Is this appropriate for our community?

It was built for it — by people from it. The intake speaks our language (kehila, learning, yichus, minhagim), the process keeps shadchanim in charge, and there is nothing here that works like a dating app.

Can we set up the profile together with our child?

Yes, and most families do. Many start by sending the office an existing shidduch résumé — the office turns it into a profile, and you refine it together from there.

Who decides whether a suggestion goes forward?

Your child does — every suggestion waits for an explicit “look closer” before anything moves. A pass is private: the other side is never told who declined or why.

What if we already have a shadchan we trust?

Perfect — ask them to join (it's free for shadchanim). Your child picks them on the platform and can limit visibility so only that shadchan sees the profile.